The language barrier


Warning: explicit language used throughout which may offend some viewers... 
Which is kinda my point...

I swear like a truckie. I won't touch the 'c-word' with gloves on and my gutter language is more of a sprinkle than a flood in my every day chatter, but I have been known to come out with statements like 'For fuck's sake, it's all just mutha fucking fucked'* during a work meeting.

You wouldn't know this about me because I don't like to swear when I'm writing. I struggle to even write 'oh my god' or 'dear lord' in case someone finds it offensive, even though I use those two expressions pretty much daily. Of course this makes me question my lacksidaisical approach to swearing in the first place, but one thing I know for certain:

It just seems to mean more when it's written down.

Take that Cee Loo Green song. You have the 'Forget You' version and then you have the 'Fuck You' version and frankly I prefer the former. Is it really necessary to have the latter? I don't think saying 'fuck' rather than 'forget' adds a single thing to the song.

I'm kind of with the censors on that one.

I get that it's 'just a word'. But I just think that whether we're dribbling f-bombs in everyday conversation or not, we really don't need to have it gilded forevermore in written expression. I think swearing is best left for chit chat (and I totally understand why some people would like it erased even there). It's just not as effective (or, on occasion, as funny) in writing. Surely when we're writing we have more time to craft a heartfelt statement that doesn't require offensive language? Surely?

Where do you stand on blue language? Does it bother you in its written form more than when it's uttered?

* Just so you know, it is actually physically paining me to write the word fuck, but I'm not hypocritical enough to say 'f-word' or 'fark' during this post as I usually might in a post... 


[Image by Gloria Rivera]

a couple

of my favourites
 from a recent photo session

Christmas Printables Giveaway by Ooh La La Studio

What better way to celebrate Christmas than with a Christmas Printables Giveaway!

I am very excited to announce that Julie from Ooh La La Studio has offered not one but 5 of my readers the opportunity to win a set of her beautiful Let It Snow Collection.


The competition is easy to enter - all you need to do is pop over the Ooh La La Studio Facebook page and become a fan and then leave a comment that I sent you.

You can see all of Julie's lovely printables here via her etsy store.



The winner will be drawn using random org on Friday December 10 at 10pm Sydney time.

I would love to know how you would like to use them.

Good Luck!

Leanne

Photo Shoot

This is my best friend, her hubby, and their cute pug. She asked me to snap a few photos for their Christmas cards. I was happy to put my camera to good use. I'm not a professional so please be nice :) These were just for fun!
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Isn't her little fam cute? Go over to her page and tell her to keep up with blogging! She's a slacker :)

Pretty jam jars

Pantry Design jam making set with jars
How cute is this Pantry Design jam making set with jars? A great stock filler for under £10.

Happy shopping!

Pretty tea & cakes

To my friend Santa...


We thought, discussed, typed, printed, decorated, stuck down, almost re-opened and finally posted!




much love monday: a soak in the tub

More Much Love Monday here.

A friend gave me some lovely bath oils. Reminds me how much I enjoy and miss a good soak in the tub. These days, it's all about grabbing a quick shower while our two-year-old shouts "All done Muuuummm? It's got me thinking: it's time to bring back the bath. Find a little window and float for a bit. And while I'm at it, I might send some of this pre-Christmas stress down the plughole.

The Over-Styled Life


I was happy when Bubby Makes Three gave me the opportunity to let it all hang out. As much as I adore the aesthetics of life, I've got a bit of an issue with the Over-Styled Life. I previously mentioned Fleur Wood's book and how much it made me cringe. Even though I couldn't get into the over-done images and seemingly forced bubbliness of the whole thing, at least it was authentically Fleur Wood. I think she's really, genuinely like that.

Although sometimes I'm rather too preoccupied with the way life looks for comfort, I'm not really in danger of leading an OLS any time soon. It's the kind of life where at a party the host worries more that everything looks perfect than the happiness of the people attending. It's perpetuating the myth that women leap out of bed fully airbrushed into homes that look like a magazine spread. A world where only a $495 rubbish bin from Top 3 by Design will save our homes from becoming land fill. It's eating Donna Hay food rather than just looking at it. It's shopping at boutique grocery stores and paying $36 for a slice of cheese without batting a Bimatoprost coated eyelash.

It's sands and taupes and camels. It's definitely never beige.

It's the woman watching the people watching her children frolicking in their matching white sundresses rather than watching the children herself. Her husband smiles indulgently and wonders if she's put on a bit.

It's over-bright smiles and self-conscious fussing. It's forced whimsy and copy-cat cutesy. It's like we stopped looking at Pretty in mags and decided that we wanted that stylist-created, airbrushed life for ourselves. Without the stylist or the airbrushing.

It's all so samey same same and it's infiltrating more and more sectors of my life and it's driving me a bit bonkers!  Fortunately, I am far too frizzy, beigey and generally lazy to really fall victim to the OSL phenomenon. But, I know it... oh, yes, we've met and I didn't instantly turn my back like I should have...

Are you a victim of the OSL? Can you maintain the pace?


[Image by Peter Guthrie]