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Scavenger Hunt Sunday: Roxy Style

UPDATE: ~~I have no idea why my pictures aren't showing up in Internet Explorer. I work through Google Chrome but I've never had this problem before. Anyone have any ideas why this is happening?! Thanks!~~ FIXED!

For this week's scavenger hunt I decided to do it Roxy style. She's my main ~~victim~~ subject anyway :) Lately I've been slightly unmotivated to pick up my camera but that will change tomorrow when my beautiful new lens arrives so stay tuned!

A different view

Looking up -from the archives

Abstract- Not really abstract but I didn't have one for this prompt and I had to put this picture in somewhere!

Hair- Oh she's going to kill me for this one! ;) She HATES baths, can't you tell by her expression?! Haha poor girl. She got a nice trim after this!

Half -Peek-a-boo!

Texture White

This week on Flickr Faves Sunday, I bring you some beautiful creamy white textures with these gorgeous pics. Check back soon for some more of the most inspirational photographers on Flickr.

Some beautiful shots from my Flickr favourites (From left to right):

The gorgeous bead work in wrist warmers... by Marianne S
The beautiful close up of yarn in Untitled by misty bliss
The wonderful crochet pebble in 4 by misty bliss
The darling detail in Untitled by misty bliss

Have a sweet day!

Perspective

I scowl at the dust bunnies that appear from under the couch, then I see the flood victims of Queensland cleaning out inches of mud from their houses ... perspective

I feel the pain in my fingers from my arthritis, then I read a story about a person with no hands ... perspective

I feel the pain in my back and then running down my legs, then I see a story on TV about a woman with no legs who uses a skateboard to get around ... perspective

I get fed up having to clean and tidy my house, then I see a story about a whole family living in a tent 12 months after an earthquake ... perspective

I think it is time for a new bed, then I see someone live on the streets ... perspective

Then I give thanks that I have all I have ... perspective - it is all out how you look at it!!!

a year ago today

this is

what

I captured

through my lens

a day full of love ♥

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I like Chinese mothers

This article in the Wall Street Journal* by Amy Chua is brilliant. It presents a completely different view on parenting, one that to me seems so radical that I am still taking it in. I literally did a double-take at some of her words. There are many ways to parent and I don't think we talk about the different styles enough. I am fascinated when a new way of doing things is opened up to me.

Key quotes from the article include:

What Chinese parents understand is that nothing is fun until you're good at it.

To get good at anything you have to work, and children on their own never want to work...

Chinese parents demand perfect grades because they believe that their child can get them.

As a parent, one of the worst things you can do for your child's self-esteem is to let them give up.

The techniques used by Chinese parents are completely different to our Western parenting style, but possibly not so different to the way our own parents were raised. They make sense. They really do. I liked what Amy had to say, but I wonder how 'success' is actually defined by Chinese parents. It seems they have more of a focus on 'succeeding' in academic and professional life than I have. Certainly the parents appear to strictly define what their child's life will be like and then mold their child to suit this expectation, which I have quite an issue with. But I can also see that there is a strong emphasis on insisting their child be the absolute best they can be and I think that has enormous merit. "They assume strength, not fragility," explains Amy.

I just wonder if LOML and I would ever have the stamina (and the guts!) to parent the Tsunamis 'Chinese-style'. It would take a lot of patience and fortitude. I wonder how differently those Tsunamis of mine would turn out under the Chinese method? Would I be pleased or faintly horrified?

It makes you wonder about the influence we have as parents and the critical role we play in shaping our children's lives. I think a balance between the Chinese and Western styles would be the ideal. Strict, but gentle. Conform... but in your own way.

Do you think that sort of balance would even be possible?

* I can assure you that The Wall Street Journal is not a daily read for me. That's why I married a banker! I often get a funny little article sent to me via LOML who has very different reading preferences to me. Always food for thought.

[Image from weheartit- link through is some blocked Russian site so can't trace the origin any further. Sorry!]

Community spirit and a smile...

The spirit of community is alive, overwhelming and simply amazing...i feel so proud and constantly moved by so much of what I am seeing right now in our home town.

One day before the devastating floods, we had news that made us smile!
Our little winter baby due in July is healthy and strong...we can't wait to hold you little one x